Guys. Sometimes you wonder if they were meant to be heartbreakers genetically. How come it seems as if they never get their hearts broken. The superhero ability to move on so quickly.

Yet girls always pine for and cry over these people. How different they are from their counterparts. How can guys so easily find someone else and feel the same way.

Question is, is it so difficult to move on?

Perhaps so, but difficulty doesn't mean inability. It just depends on how much you want it. It meaning moving on.

From the time I started listening to my friends problems around me since I was fifteen (thereabouts), there were countless " I can't move on" and " He's the only one". But it's not a can't-move on. Most of the time, it's a " I-don't-want-to-move-on".

You see, thinking of the what-could-have-beens and all the wonderful times shared, how sad the breakup was and how he mistreated you (which justifies the crying) is definitely easier than coming to terms that he will never be yours again and to strive to live a wonderful life unaffected by him. The latter is difficult like I say, but do it.

Do it because you love yourself. Do it because you don't deserve to be unhappy. Do it because the people around you do care.